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Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.

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When you feel like the conversation has reached it’s peak, make your excuses for leaving and get her number. Approach her with confidence.

This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore. To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along. Time to get past all the negative shit and just accept it – she’s with him and not you and you’re not privy to their relationship. It has NOTHING to do with you and your relationships (or lack there of) and it’s a total waste of time to think negatively about it or them.

That way you’re showing intent in an honest, open way. And if she says no, then she’s just not ready yet – you still need to keep the tone positive.

• The girl who sits next to you at the coffee shop could be your next girlfriend.
• “Oh, I work at home.
• Instead go into every new interaction you have with women expecting nothing in return.
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• I’ve evolved into the kind of guy I wanted to be and I really like myself.
• Flirting is certainly an art form and is very important when considering how to get a girlfriend.

If you have been trying to hook up with a girl for a while and it’s just not happening, be sure to arrive at that concert with a woman on your arm and you might find that the tables will turn. While everyone loves a good mystery man, real women love a guy who shows his good and bad side, with a side of quirky thrown in for good measure. In reality, women want a guy that they can be themselves around and that they can feel safe with, regardless of what they look like.

And once you get the girl of your dreams, read this article on how to be real-life relationship goals. Women LOVE a man who is well-dressed. It shows us that maybe you have your life together and that you have a sense of fashion (which means you might be able to pick out a decent gift for us when holidays and birthdays come around).

So, you’ve made it past the first couple of dates, and you want to move onto the next phase. There’s nothing worse than having sex with a guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing. Sex is a huge factor in relationships and can be a deciding factor for a girl.

16. How to Make That First Date Stand Out

Whatever it is, don’t worry about getting rejected and get on with life. Approach girls and don’t be afraid if they reject you or don’t want to talk to you.

Remember, you’re still qualifying her. If they broke up for a stupid reason, or she doesn’t sound like she’s being 100% honest about what happened, alarm bells may rightfully be going off.