Read more about how to tell if a woman likes you here.

However, what’s more, important here is to keep an eye on how engaged she actually is. Is she giving you one-word responses? That’s not a good sign. This is a huge indicator that’s fairly easy to notice. This is particularly the case when you’re in a group of people.

It’s most likely because she’s spoken to them about you at length. A girl might not openly tell a guy that she’s into him but she will tell her squad so if they know who the hell you are and seem to like you too then it’s probably because she’s really into you and has been talking you up massively. Hell, they’ve probably group stalked your social media profiles too. Well the truth is that when girls aren’t that interested in talking to you they won’t put any effort into trying to keep things interesting and will let you do all the work. But, when they’re actively engaging with the conversation, when they ask you follow up questions to keep things moving then that’s because they want to talk to you and it’s a huge indicator of the fact that they’re probably into you.

I wonder what makes this girl special. Let’s find out.

In his bestselling book, How to Get the Guy, dating coach Matthew Hussey explains that back in the Victorian days, if a woman saw a man she wanted to get to know better while out for a stroll in the park, she would drop her handkerchief and continue walking, thereby inviting him to pick it up for her and give it back and engage in a little conversation. A good rule of thumb for how to tell if a girl really likes you is to consider the context.

Looking At You (And Then Looking Away)

No matter how much time you get to spend together, she will always make sure to let you know she is focused on you. If you are romantically interested in a girl who always looks her best with gorgeous clothes and striking makeup, this sign may not be that visible to you.

• This is actually true not only for romantic relationship, but also for all types of connection between people.
• If a girl says she likes you—guess what, she means it!
• That might not be the most sophisticated approach, but sometimes, when women get frustrated that you aren’t making any moves despite her visible (and frankly, not so obvious) signs, they flirt with other men just to prompt you.
• So let’s break this down.
• A few clues are always helpful, like your age.

Well, she might not know yet; it’s possible that all she knows is that she’s not not interested in you. (Hey, nobody said this was easy.) Fishing for confirmation by asking questions of whether or not a girl likes you comes off as unattractive and demonstrates a lack of confidence… remember you are trying to impress her. There is no other sign you need to know if a girl likes you other than if she is ready to leave her own comfort zone to experience a new horizon of what you like which she may not like earlier, which may have a lot of significance to you. Do her friends say hey whenever they see you, even though they hardly know you?

So I don’t know how she’d feel about a picnic or biking. Concentrate on other things that are happening in your life, K. Put thoughts of the younger guy to the back of your mind.

Of course, it’s your responsibility to create that sexual chemistry between the two of you through touch and playful teasing. That’s what separates a friend she’s attracted to sexually from a guy she sees as “just a friend.” But if she doesn’t respond, then you can safely conclude that you two are meant to be friends. This is a huge red flag.

Let’s say you’re in a group of friends and one of them is a girl you don’t know and who isn’t interacting with you in the slightest. Let’s say she won’t look at you, or talk to you at all, and when you ask her questions she responds to someone else instead of to you. If that happens, there’s a damn good chance that she likes you so much that she’s freezing up and doesn’t know what to do. Of course she might actually hate you but realistically unless you’re genuinely an unlikeable asshole that’s probably not the case.

It could also be that she is reacting negatively to advances that are too blunt. Take her silence and avoidance as a cue to back off and give her space.

Her body language will never be stiff or turned away from you, with her torso parallel to your torso at all times. It’s old fashioned and direct but if you like her and want to know if she likes you, just ask her. If the answer is no… listen.