How to tell if a girl likes you: 21 clear signs she’s into you!

signs a girl likes you

Read more about signs a girl wants you to notice her here.

She will do her best to find out what your interests are. If you like football and she suddenly becomes a football fan, then it’s a sign! A girl will try to know more about your interest so you’ll have more in common.

Especially if she has a light smile while you’re not even joking. People look at people they like and avoid looking at people they don’t like. The neurochemical oxytocin may be responsible for increased eye contact.

After all, they’re looking to protect their friend. If you’re lucky enough to get introduced, you should also observe the way they act around you.

8. She asks you a lot of questions

If she seems like a touchy-feely person with other people, then the fact she pulled away obviously isn’t a good sign. It’s commonly known that people often touch the person they like.

  • When a girl likes you, she may tease you lightly about certain things you do or say.
  • Another sign is that when I was at class, I looked at the class window and I saw her looking at me from outside of the class.
  • Understand this is more apparent when you’re in a conversation, and she mentions she likes a certain interest as well as you do.
  • When it comes to conversion, she’ll find a whole host of reasons to talk to you, some which are valid, and others that make you question was this conversation really necessary?
  • In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if she will take initiative when you don’t do it before she even has the chance.
  • To the guy who asked if I’ll answer all the questions from his friends if he puts a link to this article on his facebook page, my answer is the same.

But given what social media addicts we all are these days, if a woman doesn’t check her phone once in the span of 30 minutes, that means she’s at least engaged enough that you should feel comfortable to ask if you should continue the conversation over drinks sometime. OK, let’s say you’ve overcome the first crucial step and are now having a conversation with a woman, but you’re not sure if she’s into it or not. A surefire way to tell if she’s feeling the vibe or not is to notice whether or not she’s got all of her attention on you. If she’s checking her phone or looking back at her friends, she’s probably trying to indicate that she’s not interested without having to explicitly say so. Thanks, Viktor.

And other people might blink more frequently, so what you think is increased or frequent blinking is really just their normal behavior. If possible, try and observe her while she’s talking to a platonic friend; that can help give you a baseline of how often she normally blinks. Once a girl likes you, she becomes comfortable and with no time reveals to you another side of her hidden to the world. This is a very important sign to look out for from a girl that likes you because as a girl she will have a lot of options to choose from so she choosing you without a blink means she actually likes you. In addition, if she is short of words or nervous because of your presence, you don’t need any soothsayer to tell you the girl likes you.

If the answer is yes, It’s entirely possible that she likes you. None of these signals alone will give you all the information you need, but treating them as individual pieces of data can be immensely helpful in recognizing a woman’s interest or disinterest. More than anything, however, trust your instinct. Even if women aren’t always obvious with their intentions — even if they don’t say aloud precisely how they’re feeling at every moment — your instincts are probably correct. Listen and triangulate them with these objective signs, and you’ll start to recognize and enhance attraction as it arises.

If a girl is friendly with you, that’s great — you want to foster that connection. But if the emphasis is on the “friend” part, that means she’s probably not that interested. Examples of treating you too much like a friend include consistent side hugging, telling people that you’re “like a brother,” or even talking about “what good friends” you are. (This might be about as literal as a woman will get without being asked point-blank.) Referring to you in terms you would use for your guy friends (“dude” or “bro”) can also be a sign that she sees you more as a friend than a boyfriend. A lack of touch or mutual flirtation is — obviously — a signal that she’s not sexually interested in you.

I think you’ll know better if you manage to start a conversation with her. There’s no harm in trying anyway, if she isn’t interested you can focus on other girls instead, and if she’s positive, that’s amazing.